In Life, we learned to walk, run... But do we learn, or been taught how to 'Stand'? (Hereby, stand is referred in term of being in a place or condition especially arguments.) Recently, i been stood as an 'Observer' in few occasions. Instead of thoughts and valued others reactions and behaviors, i did nothing, spoke nothing which referred to certain incidents (other than craps and swearing around la...)
However, i'm a Human. I have certain point of views that others may not agree or cannot accept. I tried my best to be an 'Advisor', 'Listener' to others. But, does the role that i played really able to change the whole situation, or just to delay, reduce the impact of 'Explosion'? Other than that, i realized that these roles, has to bet a heavy cost in term of relationship. Once manage unwisely, a friendship or any sort of relationship, will 'Gone'...
In certain occasions, i asked myself: "Who am i? Should i make a move for you, or make a step backward to observe you?" As a friend, i'll gladly if everyone willing to share their problems with me. But pathetically, i'm helpless. The key towards your choice and answer, is all in your hand!
So, can you teach this humble man how to 'stand' at the right place? Think twice...
p/s: I appreciate everything, every friends that i having at this moment... All are precious for me!!! Please, don't value me as 'Anonymous'.
However, i'm a Human. I have certain point of views that others may not agree or cannot accept. I tried my best to be an 'Advisor', 'Listener' to others. But, does the role that i played really able to change the whole situation, or just to delay, reduce the impact of 'Explosion'? Other than that, i realized that these roles, has to bet a heavy cost in term of relationship. Once manage unwisely, a friendship or any sort of relationship, will 'Gone'...
In certain occasions, i asked myself: "Who am i? Should i make a move for you, or make a step backward to observe you?" As a friend, i'll gladly if everyone willing to share their problems with me. But pathetically, i'm helpless. The key towards your choice and answer, is all in your hand!
So, can you teach this humble man how to 'stand' at the right place? Think twice...
p/s: I appreciate everything, every friends that i having at this moment... All are precious for me!!! Please, don't value me as 'Anonymous'.
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